Love God-Love People

Nick and I have adopted the motto-"Love God-Love People." We have decided what this means for us is an actual action of loving people and not just saying it.  How it looks for us is quite different than what others may think it should mean and while we appreciate their "kind guidance" of not "getting involved" in peoples lives, we know that this is more than a calling of sorts-it's our life's blood. So, when my dear friend, colleague, and Child Rearing guru was recently hospitalized, Nick basically told me I could "go live with them" until she came home.  (Now, I know this family well and like to think of myself as distant and VERY quirky relative, but going to "live with them" was a little imposing.)

Instead, I basically took over their household for the week.  (Seriously, they probably think I'm nuts as I created a spreadsheet for the next two weeks of life!) I bring the 3 littles home from school everyday and hang with them until daddio gets home.  Our colleagues set up dinners, school lunches, groceries, rides to practice, etc.  It's been overwhelming the amount of help that has been poured out on this family.  There are 5 amazing kiddos in the household, 2 beautiful young ladies who are in high school and the 3 "littles" are super fun twin 4 year olds and a lovely doe-eyed 8 year old.  I'm having so much fun with all of them!  While I don't see the "big" girls that much, the little moments they flit inside our lives are these super colorful moments filled with adult conversations and this feeling that I am with some very old souls.  The 8 year old is desperate for "dance parties" and dress up, only after the much dreaded homework is done.  Have YOU ever danced with a girl dressed like the clouds, a fairy princess, and Captain America? It's absolutely fantastic! Lastly, the twins.  They are this cosmic ball of energy, sly looks, and BIG smiles.  I simply adore them.

They are all doing the best they can without their mama and prayers are being lifted up around the clock for her health and their protection.  I guess I write this because I know she will see it and I hope she will be comforted knowing that her "army/village" is willing to go the distance.  I write this to also remind the rest of you to find the goodness in this life and encourage those who "love God" to find a way to step out and LOVE PEOPLE.  You will find that while you think you are helping them, you are the one forever changed.