Friday, March 29, 2013

Discovering Denver

After a full day at the Powwow, we decided to take the next day to explore and site see Denver. Despite the icy conditions,  I did the best I could to take pictures while driving.  I hope that my words will suffice as the architecture was beautiful amongst the busy street trains and tourist on foot.  the bottom two pictures are my favorites.  The ocean-blue building with jagged edges was simply breathtaking.  While I'm not sure what the two large white statues story is, I had to smile as my mind thought of the white giants dancing in the snow amongst a city of busy little people.
Our first stop was the Denver Aquarium.  A large indoor dome filled with different types of fish, flash flood warnings, fossils, mermaids, jelly fish, tigers, shark and stingray petting, jungles, and walls filled with stories and facts galore!  It took us two hours to get through and there was still more attractions we didn't get to because they were  outside.  If you ever get the chance to visit, you should check out their website: http://www.aquariumrestaurants.com/downtownaquariumdenver/


 By the time we were done walking the Aquarium, we were famished!  So, we headed to the Hard Rock Cafe.  It was noisy with good food and some pretty cool autographed memorabilia on the walls.  There was a quick stop at a hokey little Colorado store as flurries began swirling around us.  We thought we should get a move on and headed back to the hotel for naps.

After naps, some of us stayed up and watched Walking Dead while the other group stayed up and watched the Bible.  We then realized it was 10:00 and needed to eat some dinner!  So, as with all great trips, there was a late night food run.














Thursday, March 28, 2013

Denver Powwow

Every year my step-mom Christina's family attends the Denver Powwow.  A 3-day event filled with drums, dancing, fancy costumes, shopping, and yummy food!  This year, I tagged along with my mom, sister-Honey, their cousin's Leigh and Tony, and Aunt Lisa.  
Despite the crazy two-hour white out on our way, we threw up a few prayers and Hail Mary's, and inched our way to Denver.  Settling into our hotel around 10:00 and eating Lonestar at 10:30 seemed quite luxurious before "hitting the sack."  We prepared for the next day and despite the time change, had a wonderful nights sleep.

The pictures above are of the grand entrance.  Different drum groups played while a variety of dancers came into the arena.  It was a breathtaking site and one I will never forget.  All ages walk/danced their way into the stadium. The elderly stoic and almost stern like, proud Native women with their heads held high, teenage fancy dancers crowing and thrashing their bodies to the beat, while teenage girls jingle dresses rang loud and clear.  There were women who wore the United States flag as proud members of the different branches of the government and Tiny tots holding hands with their mothers and fathers, introducing them to their heritage and history.  As a non-native, I was overwhelmed with emotion and couldn't help but tear up a bit.  Watching people so in depth with their culture and the beauty of handmade regalia and music, was absolutely stunning. 

We watched the dancers off and on while taking laps around the auditorium to look at handcrafted creations.  There was so much to look at and take in.  Tribes from all over the U.S. filled tables with carvings, pottery, moccasins, toys, books, bead work, antlers, and jewelry.  It was a smorgasbord of beauty and art.  I had fun browsing and even bought myself a buckskin tank top and beaded belt.  My step-mom bought me a horse blanket "satchel" and we went in together on a book called, "Keeper Of The Female Medicine Bundle."  It's a biography written by Allen Ross about his mother, Wihopa (Agnes Ross), a Mdewakanton, born in 1910. The book "chronicles the essence of Wihopa-educator and tribal leader, who lead the way and always made those of us who followed feel special."  We ended our afternoon with the best Indian tacos ever and more shopping!
  


Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Meeting Dr. Deak

Two years ago, I went to Florida for an early childhood convention.  It was incredible! The best part however, was sitting through a 2-hour lecture from Dr. JoAnn Deak talking about brain development.  Check out her books, "Your Fantastic, Elastic Brain,"  "How Girls Thrive," and one on the way this fall about the adolescent brain.  In fact, just check out her website for the latest research, books, and resources: http://www.deakgroup.com/
I went home from that convention and couldn't stop talking about all that I had learned about the brain and the best practices to help "stretch" children's "rubber bands."  I was so enthralled by the lecture that I brought home a copy of the "Fantastic Elastic Brain" for my principal and Headmaster to look at.  Dr. Deak calls teachers and parents "Nero sculptures," which is a pretty big deal if you ask me!  So, imagine my surprise when I found out the new headmaster knew Dr. Deak from previous projects and invited her to be Brownell Talbots 21st Century Learning speaker!!!  I was so excited I cried!  this woman is a amazing and I couldn't wait to share her with the rest of Brownell's educators.
With all that said, Dr. Deak showed up Wednesday, and got right to work on a 3-hour lecture to the faculty.  Now, 3 hours sounds like a long time, but most were disappointed when her time with us was over!  Thursday, she spent visiting the school, with students during their forums, and a couple classes. One was mine!  Can you imagine the person you so look up to and admire (though you really never met them before) sitting in your chair and talking to your students!  It was really an emotional experience that I will NEVER forget.  Later in the evening, Brownell opened up the lecture to the public where Dr. Deak spoke mostly about parenting and the importance of creating "technology boundaries," deposing of "artificial task's," and that the "grit factor is more important than academic factors."  She blew some theories out of the water and you could see the wheels turning in every single persons head.

Lastly, Dr. Deak spent Friday morning just with fathers.  While Nick is yet to be a father, he enjoys learning all he can about bringing his "babies up right." He is also fascinated by the brain and how one action can influence your child's entire life.  He told me Dr. Deak had asked men to hold their babies like a Kangaroo for the first year to bond, but it also happens to change brain chemicals in the child's brain for the rest of their life.  It also produces a chemical change in men, but only when they are holding the baby.  Everything about this so fascinating!

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

A Nut In My Heart

"A Nut In My Heart," this funny little phrase came through my e-mail yesterday from my dear friend Lisa who is finishing out her missionary stay in Thailand.  She was writing her semi-monthly update and shared the following story: "Right now there are also several possibilities regarding "completing the work" I still feel God has laid on my heart... that is, more connection between our church, and the Thai Church at large, with ministries here that are reaching out to those in the sex-trade.  When I tried to share this a while back using Thai, I unfortunately used the word that can mean "seed" OR "nut"... regarding the "seed in my heart" that God "wakes up" and reminds me at certain times is still there,so there's a bit of a joke about the "nut in my heart."

For some reason, this phrase, "Nut In My Heart" really took hold-in my heart!  It makes me laugh thinking about a tiny nut with a tiny little nut cap floating within a beating heart.  There's an analogy there that keeps going round in round in my head and I hope my words and thoughts can do it justice.  I wonder if God really wanted Lisa to say "nut" instead of "seed."  We are so used to the seed being planted and growing, that it's hard to think the nut can do the same! And yet, some of the world biggest trees come from nuts!


 Consider this phrase: Mighty oaks from little acorns grow

We all have the ability to plant, water, and grow when life seems easy enough.  But, with a nut, it's hiding the seed within IT'S heart, waiting for the best time to open and plant.  There are times when we too are hiding our "seeds" deep within the "nut" of our hearts when the world is just waiting for us to plant and prosper. Will you keep the "nut in your heart" hidden?  Or will you take a leap of faith and show God, the world, the love of your life what your capable of planting. Go out and make this world a better place!  Grow where your planted, prosper when your uprooted.  Just make sure your planting your heart nuts. 

Thursday, March 14, 2013

The Perfect Storm


Storms of Life
            Fourth of July weekend, my wife and I were surrounded by family and friends in a beautiful modern-day cabin with a sixty-foot lakeside view of Lake Chautauqua. Located on the Southwest corner of the state of New York, the lake is surrounded by rolling hills covered with green trees. Three miles across and seven miles wide, I knew this magnificent display of creation could not only be marveled upon, but also revered.
            There had been some talk earlier that morning about going out tubing on the lake if the weather was clear. Clear the weather was indeed, not a cloud in the sky with the temperature around eighty-five degrees, a perfect day to enjoy the lake. This was the first time for me to be on such a vast expanse of water. With a little timidity, I joined the others: Tim, my father-in-law; Racheal and Honey, my two sister-in-laws; Jake; a brother-in-law; Tina, a cousin in the family; and my wife, Kassandra.
            In a sixteen-foot ski boat, we skipped across the lake like a stone a giant had thrown across the surface of the water. Once we arrived to somewhere in the middle, where the shore had lost its individual characteristics and now could only be identified by the peaks and valleys of the surrounding hills, we stopped to lower the tube into the water and chose the first daredevil of the day. Racheal, a six-foot brunette, who is maybe a hundred pounds soaking wet quickly volunteered. The tube bounced around the wake of the boat with little indication that a rider was on board. It was not long before the tube capsized and she had had enough.
            By now, I noticed the water was getting rather choppy with an occasional white cap to contrast the blue water. This was as little or to no significance to my father-in-law Tim, however, he is a man’s man, loves the outdoors. He was far to busy chiding me, “Racheal did it, if you don’t go out there, you will never hear the end of it.” I knew this would be true, for the boat had already begun to fill up with resounding pokes and prods from the other in-laws. I swallowed whatever reservations I had, and threw caution to the wind. Once I said ok, my wife chimed in, “I’ll go too.” I am not sure if she thought I would feel safe with her by my side out there, or if she being the thrill-seeker was chomping at the bit for the experience. Either way, she was a true partner wanting to see all life’s moments side by side; I was happy to have her come along.
            The water had quite a few more white caps, but I am sure the in-laws were blinded by the opportunity to have fresh blood in the water. It started to rain big heavy cold drops as soon as the rope went taught. The kind of drops that feel like someone is flicking you with their finger when they hit your skin. Nonetheless, the in-laws pulled on the throttle and away we went. The rain transitioned from thumps of a finger to being pelted by icicles. My wife and I signaled for them to stop and pull us back in. Since all of the attention was on getting Kassandra, the tube, and I back into the boat; none of us were prepared for the scene to follow.
            We looked up to head back to the cabin only to see a grey cloud encompassing the boat. Our big open country view turned into a dismal wall of grey that allowed us only to see ten feet in any direction. Soon, we were being bombarded from every direction by wave after wave. Like bullies surrounding a child on a school playground, the waves seemed to enjoy our situation of helplessness.
            I realized that the perils of the lake were upon us. Recalling the safety tour over the boat from Uncle Six, who was not with us, I passed out the life jackets. Next was to discern who would need further assistance if the boat were to capsize. At first, I thought of my beloved wife, but knowing that even though she may not be a strong swimmer, with her fight for life, strong will, and a life jacket, she would be just fine. Jake was the youngest in the group, at the age of seventeen. He was strong, athletic, and more than capable to keep his wits about him. Most likely, it would be the two girls, Racheal and Honey, who would need to be looked after. I noticed during this short assessment that all of them were looking to their father. They were looking to Tim for strength, hope, and assurance that everything was going to be fine. It was at that moment with Tim standing at the bow of the boat, a giant wave toppled over him. The wave dropped him to the floor of the boat, and like a cat that had just been dunked into a bucket of water he scrambled for something to hold onto. The look of panic set fear and worry into the rest of the boat. Thoughts of this being the end started to set in. The boat was taking in water, and there was no telling how much longer it would hold up. Recalling an old Sunday school story form my youth, of Jesus calming the seas, I shot an arrow of prayer to the heavens, “Father, you created the heavens and the earth, my life is in your hands, by your will calm this storm like you did in the past. Amen.” No sooner did amen leave my mouth when with the flick of a switch the waves stopped and the skies cleared.
A good reminder for the storms ahead, call on God and He will answer!
          

Monday, March 11, 2013

The Wild West, Nebraska Bats, And Us

Nick and I signed up for this crazy Nebraska Bats class in Lincoln about a month ago.  We decided to make a weekend of it and stayed the night!  Nick was in charge of getting us a room and let's just say, it was pretty...um...interesting. The room was themed: Wild West Hideout.  Doesn't Nick look thrilled?!  The decor was hideous with a barrel table, mirrors surrounding the hot tub, cowboys and cowgirl statues, skulls, and crazy paintings starring at us all night long.  It was quite the adventure!
 Our Bat class took place at Pioneers Park Nature Center.  We had fun making a short video of our experience and couldn't help but shudder every time a dead or live bat came our way.  Did you know there are 13 species of bats in Nebraska?  Only 4 fly south for winter while the others hibernate.  We were asked to create bats with art materials, play habitat games, and listen to Nebraska's very own bat enthusiast.  Like I said, we examined several small brown bats alive AND dead and were even brave enough to touch them!
Bat Class

 Nick touching a DEAD, frozen bat!
Our attempts at getting crafty

 We celebrated our learning experience with a visit to James Aurthur Vineyard.  (We were given a gift certificate for a picnic basket and wine tasting)  James Aurthur is a lovely vineyard tucked away amongst a bustling city of movement.  The drive was peaceful and the vineyard was packed with individuals looking for the first touches of spring.  We had a good time together pretending we knew what we were doing and fancied ourselves from another time as we were seated in high back vintage chairs with a small Tiffany lamp lighting our intimate conversation.  We had a great getaway and look forward to the next one!



Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Turning 30...

My So Called Life: A Memoir On Turning 30

The day I've been dreading for all my life came and went without any cosmic intervention, crazy birthday shenanigans, or man-hole swallowing me up into the abyss. 30 is the age where I couldn't see my life after.  I had hoped that by the time 30 came, I would have experienced enough of life for it to not matter anymore, that I could live without regret because I would had accomplished all that I ever thought I could or wanted too.  The absurdity of this thinking caught up to me as 30 fast approached, and I can't help but to laugh as I even write this.

My birth-day, was packed right from the start.  Apparently my busy life has no such respect for things like a lazy day of celebrating your coming into this world.  I got up, sipped a cup of coffee, and contemplated if my days would now be highlighted by how many opportunities I would get in a year to wear jeans. (When did this become a highlight?)  My wonderful hubby left me a sweet note with $10 to grab "the girls" coffee on the way to work.  He said if I decided to "not be generous and keep it" for myself, he would "never know."  (Insert eye roll) Let's just say, "the girls" were taken care of.  At work, I was greeted with many hugs and shouts by my students and the opportunity to make pizza and eat cheesecake with them.  The two desserts they thought I should bring. I guess when your 30, you make your own birthday treats...sob. It happened to also be Faculty/Staff Appreciation Week at school so, we were treated to a super yummy lunch where I won a framed picture of a tree.  Kinda ironic, I know.  My life is always surrounded by trees, their roots system, and the birds that nest, grow, and take flight from.  

I took a half day to go to a doctor's appointment and spend some time with myself.  Maybe even pick up a little something for myself.  This was almost immediately met with extreme guilt.  As I walked around the crowded mall on a late Friday afternoon, I kept thinking of the cockamamie idea that not even two hours away on the Omaha Tribe's Reservation were hundreds of people without drinking water and here I was wasting money on a birthday present for myself. So, I went home and took a nap dreaming of children begging and old men already brittle and thirsty asking for a drink.

That night, I picked up my dear friend Angie and went to church.  Yes, I went to church on my "dirty thirty."  No shenanigans for me.  Just a calm, peaceful evening surrounded by 500 women getting REAL with themselves, God, and each other.  A chance to take inventory on my life.  As our pastors wife preached a wonderful message about transforming your mind and getting REAL, I couldn't help but think of the transformations that have already taken place in my life and the happiness of knowing who I am as I embark on this wonderful journey into my thirty's.  Life seemed to stand still for me in that room of women, which would be considered a nightmare for me in my past, and I realized that I was truly happy for the first time in my life.  Despite the general idea of where I thought I would be by 30 and the things I would have accomplished by now, I kinda let go of it all and appreciated the time I was in for once.  We left a little early as I had to work the next day, but spent 45 minutes in Angie's driveway talking like girls do.

As I drove home with the city lights flying past, I said a prayer of thanks to My Father in Heaven for seeing fit to make this life come true.  Tears began to form in my eyes as "THE SONG" played and I drove thinking of the life that's yet to come and I had to laugh. "I will wait, I will wait for you." Yes, I will wait for you oh life song, I will wait the rest of my years to rest in this moment of turning 30.